underthebluesky:

akaila:

underthebluesky:

It’s really disappointing that women are finding the Fifty Shades trilogy romantic and something to aspire to in a relationship. It’s not about the sex, people can do whatever they want in the bedroom as consenting adults, but it’s the fact that the author is masking an abusive relationship…

*spoliers some what*
If you knew anything about the life style that Christian lives than you would know that it isnt abusive. This book actually got alot of it right on that kind of life style. If you have actually read it and read the next two you would ALSO know that he is trying to change to be with her through about the whole thing. He is turning his back on a lifestyle that was all he ever known. its about much more than most ppl like to complain about. its also about fantasy. and this book has help some couples because it isnt just about sex. its about learning to respect peoples choices and to love them no matter what.

Please dont give people shit because they like a certain book. and please actually read the book before going off what everyone else says or what you read on the internet.

If someone enjoys a book dont give them shit about it. I am sure that there are many other things that one person likes that isnt for another person.

Excuse me, I read all three books. So I can give shit to whoever I please about these books.

No, if you take away the sex/the BDSM lifestyle, it’s an extremely controlling and abusive relationship, physically and emotionally/mentally. When she does something he doesn’t like, he wants to beat the shit out of her and that’s not for his sexual pleasure… that’s because she ‘disobeyed’ him. And she can’t live her life without his consent. The fact that she is constantly begging him not to be angry with her just because she is living her everyday life, wanting to actually live a normal life. WTF?! I don’t give a shit about BDSM, people can do whatever the heck they want as adults, but this book is absolute shit. The writing is horrific and storyline is appalling. And for women to think this is right, FUCKING HELL! For them to wish they had a Christian Grey of their own?! For what? To control them, only want them to stay at home doing nothing, waiting for him to come home so he could beat the shit out of them because they want to work or go out on their own. I can’t even. It’s so fucking stupid. If they want him for the spanking and sex, that’s fine. Go ahead, fantasize about that, but it’s ridiculous to actually want a controlling man like. And his reaction when she tells him she’s pregnant… fucking priceless. What makes me fly into a blind rage is the fact that this character has no self respect.

JESUS CHRIST. You can like the book all you want, but that doesn’t mean it’s a good book. Don’t mask this unhealthy relationship by calling it a BDSM lifestyle, that’s an insult to couples/people who actually have that lifestyle and aren’t fucked up like those two ridiculous characters. Plus, Anatasia Steele is one dumb bitch. Don’t even get me started on how the author writes her and her ridiculous inner goddess/subconscious. And the constant British idioms when she’s supposed to be American! Oh my Oh my Oh my… SHUT THE FUCK UP! I don’t understand how anyone can identify with a flat character like that. The constant, I’m this kind of girl and I’m not that kind of girl. Oh my God, stop trying to make her special, she’s not, she’s the most boring character I’ve ever read since Bella Swan and it seems they’re one and the same.

Read the following, from Wikipedia…

Whitney Frink, a producer of Access Hollywood, also criticized the book’s sexual content, stating “If it helps awaken your bedroom imagination, so be it. But let’s not tout this book as anything other than the big step backwards that it is.”

Jessica Reaves, of the Chicago Tribune, wrote that the “book’s source material isn’t great literature” noting that the novel is “sprinkled liberally and repeatedly with asinine phrases” and described it as “depressing”.

The New Zealand Herald stated that the book “will win no prizes for its prose” and that “there are some exceedingly awful descriptions,” but that it was also an easy read and if you “can suspend your disbelief and your desire to – if you’ll pardon the expression – slap the heroine for having so little self respect, you might enjoy it.”

I think you completely missed the parts in the book where he tells her SEVERAL times that she is an adult and can make her own choices. That she can leave whenever she wants. That she does not have to do anything she doesnt want to do. Its her who cont to ask for it and let him do the things. She knows what she is doing. She knows what she got her self in to. Its one thing if he never says those things. but he does A LOT in the book. at least in the first one…..

So the whole point is… She made her choices and he Let her. He tells her several times that its up to her..